Top 6 Most Asked Questions in Spirit Guide Readings

Ever wonder what people ask their Spirit guides in my readings the most? Whether you're just opening up to spirit or deeply connected already, these questions come from the heart of what so many of us long for: clarity, connection, and guidance.

1. Should I stay in this relationship or not?

This is one of the most emotionally charged questions that I am being asked. When we’re unsure about a relationship, whether romantic, family, or friendship, spirit helps us tune in to how it’s affecting our energy. They show what the relationship is teaching us, what’s being repeated, and what’s truly nourishing our soul.

In sessions, I often hear practical and loving guidance around boundaries, patterns, and inner truth. Often Spirit reveals what you already know but haven’t felt ready to face. Other times, they remind you that love shouldn’t mean self-abandonment. When the message is clear, it tends to feel like relief, even if it’s hard. Trust what your body feels when you hear the truth. That’s where your knowing lives.

2. Am I on the right path?

When life feels uncertain or heavy, this question naturally arises. Spirit doesn't always give a simple yes or no. Instead, they share insights to help us feel what’s aligned and notice what’s pulling us off course. In my sessions, Spirit is incredibly practical, they often share specific insights, steps to take, and direction to help you move forward with clarity and confidence. If you’re asking this question, you’re already listening.

Spirit doesn’t just predict the far future. They share the next best steps for you at this moment in time, things like reaching out to someone, taking a break, learning to say no, speaking up for yourself or setting boundaries at work. The right path isn’t always the easiest, but when we’re being given life advice, we know it feels right.

3. Will I find love again?

Love is at the core of the human experience. Whether romantic, platonic, or soul-level, our guides gently bring us back to the love we hold within. The more we nurture that space, the more love we’re able to receive and recognise around us.
Again, Spirit doesn’t predict the far future, but what best to focus on right now.

In sessions, Spirit often brings through the reminder that love isn't just something we wait to receive. It's something we become. When your heart feels closed, they may help you explore the reasons why. And when it begins to open again, even in tiny ways, that's when love finds its way in. Whether it's a new relationship, deeper self-love, or healing with someone from your past, love always begins with presence.

4. Why did I go through that pain?

Loss, trauma, and grief can leave deep marks on our soul. Spirit doesn’t rush us through it. They honour the pain and softly reveal what our soul is learning, shedding, or integrating. Healing doesn’t mean forgetting. It means becoming whole.
When you're in the middle of heartache, it can be hard to see any meaning at all. But over time, and with support from spirit, clarity begins to surface. Sometimes the pain cleared something that wasn’t aligned. Sometimes it cracked you open so more of your truth could come through. Whatever the reason, your guides never blame or shame. They hold space until you’re ready to see what wisdom was woven into the hardship.

5. Who is with me from the Spirit world?

So many people want to know if loved ones are still near. Spirit guides often work alongside those who have passed, bringing messages, signs, and the deep comfort of knowing we’re never alone.
Loved ones in spirit may come through with their unique energy, a familiar scent, or a memory that suddenly fills your heart. You might feel them in a song lyric, a feather at your feet, or the way the light lands in a certain moment. Our guides help make these connections stronger.

6. What is my purpose in this life?

This is the big one. Our guides often remind us that purpose doesn’t have to be one huge mission. It can be found in everyday moments, in how we love, grow, heal, and show up. Often it’s more about who we become than what we achieve.
So many people carry the pressure of needing to find their purpose like it’s a single destination. But Spirit often shows us it’s more like a slow unfolding. Your purpose may shift across seasons of your life. Sometimes it’s found in nurturing others, sometimes in healing yourself. Often, it’s revealed through the small, intuitive steps you take, especially the ones that feel most like you.

Your guides are here to walk beside you, not lead you away from your own power. When you’re quiet enough to listen, their wisdom often mirrors the truth you already carry within. 

If you’d like to connect more deeply, I offer private sessions where we invite Spirit to step forward, bringing healing, clarity, and beautiful messages that remind you: love never dies.

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With love,
Jude

Psychic Medium, Intuitive Healer, Spiritual Coach and Channeller