Mediumship, Misunderstood:
5 Common Myths Debunked

Mediumship has been around for centuries, yet it’s still widely misunderstood. Hollywood portrayals, fear-based stories, and pop culture myths have all added layers of confusion, and even fear, around what it truly means to connect with Spirit. As a psychic medium, I hear a lot of the same questions (and raised eyebrows) over and over again. So let’s take a look at some of the most common misconceptions about mediumship… and what’s actually true.

1. Mediums Talk to Ghosts Lurking in the Shadows


Let’s clear this one up straight away: mediumship is not about spooky hauntings or summoning the dead in candlelit rooms. When I connect with Spirit, it's a peaceful, loving, and often emotional exchange. Loved ones who have passed on share messages to bring healing, closure, or simply to remind you that they’re still walking beside you, just in a different way.

2. Mediums Know Everything About You
Nope, we’re not mind readers!

A medium doesn’t “spy” into your private life. Instead, we act as a bridge between you and Spirit, receiving impressions, images, words, or feelings that come through with love, guidance and intention. Every session is unique, and what comes through is what’s most needed in that moment,  not a life dossier.



3. You Don’t Have to Believe… But an Open Heart Helps


You don’t need to fully believe or understand how mediumship works — curiosity is welcome. But if someone comes into a session closed off, sceptical to the point of resistance, or mentally “testing” the process, it can make it harder to receive clear guidance. Spirit responds to energy, and when your heart is open (even just a little), it creates space for a much deeper connection. You don’t have to believe everything, just be willing to receive.



4. Mediums Only Talk About Death
Mediumship is rooted in love, not loss.

Yes, many people come looking for comfort after someone they love has passed. But the sessions are often filled with laughter, memories, and healing. Spirit brings forward reminders of life, the silly stories, the shared jokes, the things only you would understand. It's about connection, not endings.



5. It’s Evil or Goes Against Religion


This belief runs deep for many, especially if you were raised with teachings that said connecting with Spirit is “wrong.” I always say: take what resonates and leave the rest. My personal experience is that Spirit communicates with love, never fear. There is nothing dark in light-filled connection. In fact, many clients describe their sessions as deeply spiritual, healing and heart-opening.



Mediumship isn’t about theatrics or drama. It’s about heart, healing, and hope. It’s about knowing that love doesn’t end when the physical body does, and that you are never as alone as you may feel. If you’ve ever been curious, confused, or even scared about mediumship, I hope this brought some clarity and comfort. And if you’re feeling called to connect with someone on the other side, know that you don’t need to do it alone, I’d love to help guide you.

If this resonates with you and you’re ready to experience a session for yourself, I invite you to book a reading. Whether you’re navigating grief, searching for guidance, or simply want to feel that love again, Spirit always has messages for you.

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With love,
Jude

Psychic Medium | Intuitive Healer | Spiritual Coach | Channeller